A few months ago we started opening every staff meeting at our company by sharing “wins.” Big wins, small wins, it doesn’t really matter. Just something positive and encouraging to set the tone for our time together.
Surprisingly, this proved to be much more difficult than I expected. Even when prompted for the positive, our conversations just seemed to instinctively divert back toward something that was not working properly and needed to be fixed.
Identifying a problem was natural. Celebrating a win was hard work.
But we determined to contend for the good things first. Once we’ve properly celebrated, then we can focus on the difficulties with a sense of healthy perspective. The world isn’t actually collapsing in around us. There are good things happening. We are making progress. We just proved it!
It’s subtly changed my outlook on things and (I think) the overall tone of our times together. Which got me thinking…
What if we made that same pact with each other when it came to sharing our thoughts on social media?
If our newscasts replaced “it bleeds it leads” with opening storylines of beauty, hope, and restoration.
If dinner conversations with the family always kicked off with the day’s successes?
Life’s tough, and the world is a scary place. There are endless challenges to meet and gut-wrenching problems to solve. But I wonder how much worse things seem simply because we’ve forgotten how to celebrate?
“Summing it all up, friends, I’d say you’ll do best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious—the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to praise, not things to curse.”
—Philippians 4:8-9 MSG