You must risk what you fear the most, to gain what you long for the most.
It’s a truth any entrepreneur understands. But it’s reality for all of us. Risk to gain. I’m especially awakening to this in the area of relationships. Even my closest ones.
We all long for deep connection. To know and be known. It’s hard-wired into our DNA, evident since Adam and Eve walked naked in the Garden of Eden. Man was created to be real, exposed, authentic (“I’m out there, Jerry, and I’m loving every minute of it!”).
With each other.
But sin created a gap, and like Adam and Eve we cover up. The essence of our true selves still (somewhat) there, but shrouded to expose only the “acceptable” parts. The partial me. The pieces I want you to see.
Because the rest brings shame. The rest becomes a target for judgment and ridicule. And who can blame us? We have a history of destroying one another through exposed weakness. So stay covered. Stay hidden. Lonely is at least safe.
And therein lies the risk.
You long to be known as you really are. In all your weaknesses. All your insecurities. All your fears. That’s a risk, and risk means it may not work out like you planned. In fact, it may not work out at all.
But are you willing to risk what you fear the most, to gain what you long for the most?